Putting things off is the biggest waste of life: it snatches away each day as it comes, and denies us the present by promising the future.
Seneca – 4 BC (Córdoba) – 65 AD (Rome)
That line comes from Seneca’s essay – ‘De Brevitate Vitae’ (The Shortness of Life), written in 49 AD.
And as Wayne Gretsky, the former Canadian ice hockey star, once said – ‘Procrastination is one of the most common and deadliest of diseases and its toll on success and happiness is heavy. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take’.
I well remember a Qantas commercial from the early 1970s when I lived in Australia. It started out with a young man saying that when he finished school he was going to travel. Then it was after he completed his studies. One saw the young man looking a little older, saying that when his children grew up, he was going to see the world. Then the man looking much older, salt-and-peppered and conservative, saying that when he retired he was going to travel and see the world. Finally, there appeared a very old grey bearded wrinkly saying – ‘One of these days…’.
For me, decisions involving my own money – buying a house, shares, a car, a phone, a computer etc. are relatively easy. I know what I want, I have a reasonable idea of the cost, and when I find it, I buy it. I really don’t care if I later find that I could have bought it for less somewhere else, or by waiting I could have had a better deal. The deal is done and I move on. For me the old saying, that ‘time is money’ very much applies. I very much believe that it is important to know what your time is worth and not to waste it in trying to make relatively insignificant savings.
In a similar manner decisions involving where I live and/or work have also been relatively easy for me and have always been because of what I wanted to do next in life. We have no choice of parents or of where we are born and raised, but we certainly can decide where we want to live. Consequently, I have left a trail of cities behind me – Toronto, Sydney, Los Angeles, London, Lagos, Caracas, Miami, Panama, Lima, Camberley, Neuchâtel, Paris, Uppsala, Chamonix, Montevideo and now Cape Town. One of these days I may settle down… 🙂
At work the major decisions are usually much more complex and involve many variables. Making 5 out of 5 profitable decisions hardly seems possible. With 4 out of 5, promotion is just a matter of time. With 3 out of 5, one may remain employed. Anything less usually results in ‘adios’. And procrastination on a difficult decision rarely wins respect.
Where I have often struggled is with the negative decisions involving people, for example in terminating a relationship or someone’s employment. With some, I would certainly never win a popularity contest. And yet, once the decision is made and communicated, I have usually felt an overwhelming sense of relief. As is written in the bible, and frequently misquoted, ‘the truth sets you free’.
Life is too short to waste on regretting what could have been…
In the words of Edith Piaf – ´Non, Je ne regrette rien’.